• artsy fartsy,  Buddies

    Craft Day at Kate’s

    Kate's stamps

    I have this friend named Kate. Just like her name, she’s great. She’s that girl who always wears something classic and timeless yet incredibly creative like a cool silver bracelet with an otherwise ordinary outfit. How does she do that? She has amazing taste and she was born that way. She starts trends, she doesn’t follow them. I think she invented polka dots. She has the coolest house and the coolest clothes. Just about everything she does makes me stop and think, why didn’t I think of that?

    When I stand next to her I often feel like the most backwards boring frump that ever was. I often think that I’m just not good enough for her because she is so artsy and put-together, a perfect combination of originality and timeless beauty. Meanwhile I’m the boring has-been who dressed herself in the dark from the dirty laundry I found on the floor. But then I remind myself that I get to be in her collection of friends. She picked me out like a bead in her beautiful friend necklace. I might be that weird wobbly orange bead that smells funny but she picked me out.

    I think that about a lot of my friends actually. I wonder what they could ever see in me. But then I just tell myself that I add spice to an otherwise perfect life. They need me to mix things up. Everybody needs a quirky friend like me, right?

    Kate likes to stay anonymous (mostly) on the internet so I haven’t really mentioned her much before. Even though she’s drop-dead gorgeous you’ll never see her picture here because she doesn’t like to be photographed. (Though she is in my wedding photos so if you’re sneaky you’ll know who I’m talking about.)

    But my story isn’t really about her so much. It’s just that we were hanging out at her house today. We’ve been doing that every Wednesday. We both have kids nearly the same age and we’re trying to start up a regular Craft Day Wednesday sort of thing.

    work station

    So far it’s going really great. We still have to work out the kinks, like timing and snack schedules. I need to work on bringing all the right supplies and having them ready before attention spans run out on me. But it’s working. Maybe someday we’ll invite friends and neighbors to come too. It’s a lofty dream but it could happen. Kate does have the perfect backyard for it, of course.

    quack

    Today we decided to make foam stamps. I was trying to emulate this craft (via The Crafty Crow) but I wasn’t able to round up any plastic take-out containers or foam plates in time. Kate had some sticker-backed craft foam paper on hand so we tried that instead. Surprisingly it worked! It wasn’t perfect but it did work.

    painting

    First we had the kids draw a little figure on the foam with a ball-point pen. Then Kate or I drew over their design with a dull colored pencil, making sure the line was thick and etched into the foam heavily. The sticker backing helped the pencil not go all the way through. Then we rolled on some paint, or let the kids dab on their own, and stamped away. It was loads of fun.

    pretty pomegranites

    I think Kate and I could have stayed there all day stamping away. It’s funny how as a mom you do all these really neat crafts that you never would have thought of if you didn’t have kids, but since you do have kids you have a very small window of time in which to do them in. It’s the motherhood catch-22 I guess. But I’m not complaining.

    Cards!

    At the end of the day we had quite the collection of cards. They’re a little bit sloppy and sometimes covered in fingerprints but I think they will work great for those times when I need to slip in a little note for a package or send off a simple “thinking of you” card.

    Bug's art

    Kid art is so sweet. I know we only have a short amount of time that they will want to share it with us. This is an easy way to make the art last a little longer. I don’t know how long these stamps will hold up but they do wash and they can be re-used. I’m sure they’ll make many more cards. It’s print-making at its crudest.

    washed and ready for re-use

    I can’t wait to see what we do next Wednesday! Long live Craft Day Wednesdays! Hopefully Kate lets me live that long. She’s going to kill me for writing this post about her.

  • Bad Mom,  Bug,  illos,  Life Lessons,  spilling my guts

    I need kid advice.

    mommymommymommy

    Okay, I have two things I need advice on. Baby Bug is the sweetest smartest girl ever and I ADORE her but she has two traits that are driving me absolutely crazy. I know I could probably find some helpful information about this behavior in a book but I don’t have time to look for books! So I thought I’d just ask you guys. You all seem to be so smart when it comes to kids.

    The first thing is she talks a lot. A LOT. Like all the time. She sings and talks and makes noises. She pretty much fills every second that she is awake with some sort of vocal sound. It’s really nice and fun and most of the time I love her chatter but once in a while I just want to hear myself think. Sometimes I even snap at her because she is driving me insane and then I hate myself for not having patience. Then after I’ve snapped she will repeatedly ask me things over and over to see if I’m still frustrated. Which I always am. Sort of a Are you mad, mommy? Are you still mad? How about now? commentary which makes me lose my mind.

    Is this normal? I know it is lovely that she is such a talkative child and I know I will miss it someday when she wants nothing to do with me but is there some sort of trick I can teach her to give me some pause once in a while? I’ve tried sitting down and explaining that Mommy needs some quiet in between sentences sometimes so that she can think up really good answers to her questions but she doesn’t seem to understand.

    the dawdler

    The other thing is that she won’t be hurried. Wherever we go, she dawdles behind. Always. She seems to be in her own little world and no matter how much I call to her to hurry up, she will not keep up. In the store, on walks, when we are out with friends…this is always our problem. I find myself losing my patience all the time with her. Most of the time I just pick her up and carry her to where I want her to go because she just won’t go. Trying to get Bug from point A to point B is like pushing water up a hill. Other children run ahead but that is NEVER her. Why is she like this? It doesn’t seem to be a power play. She genuinely seems to be completely absorbed in whatever is at hand and not interested at all in whatever is ahead. Oh look a rock! A flower! A pebble! Is this something that will pass? Do I just need to slow down and manage my expectations better?

    But other than those two things, that make my days extreeeeeeeeemly CHALLENGING, she is perfect.

    Any ideas?