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Bam! OctoberNovemberDecember…
How does it go? August takes forever; September is a terribly hot, August part two, and then bam! OctoberNovemberDecember go by in a flash? The flash has started and here I sit, again, wishing I had used my time more wisely back in August. Will I ever learn?
Bug and I have finally figured out how to do our weekly mother-daughter dates without biting each other’s heads off. It’s been really sweet hanging out with her again. We had a beach day, and then, this last Friday, we went to Oak Glen and got apple cider doughnuts at Snowline with my parents. It almost felt like old times when we didn’t worry about the world coming to an end.
Speaking about not worrying and returning to a time of happy memories, I spent Halloween with my great niece and did all the great Antie things. I am the greatest aunt after all. It felt just like old times with Bug and before that, Rapunzel. These are the things that make seasons go round.
I tried to do Inktober but fizzled out on day nine; that’s worse than usual for me.
I’m trying to make October resolutions instead of New Year’s resolutions, but they are going just as badly as New Year’s resolutions. I get going for about three days, all gung-ho and motivated, and then my inner rebel takes over, and I revolt and stay in bed. Then I try again. Repeat, repeat, repeat. Be gentle on yourself, I say. But gentle doesn’t seem to get me very far. I even stuck a note to my pantry (where I sometimes keep the carbs) that says, “Forgive yourself,” thinking maybe reverse psychology would work on me. It doesn’t work. I’m too smart for myself. Do you know what does work? Not shopping for food. Empty pantries are excellent appetite suppressants. When the best thing you have to snack on is lettuce or an apple, that’s a win! It’s a good thing I’m the only one around to be grumpy at.
I went to Las Vegas for a weekend in October. I visited my best friend, Bethany and we talked about snake shed art. She’s working on a fantastic art piece for Chinese New Year that I’m very excited about. I will make sure to put the deets here when they are available.
And you know how I love a desert sunrise…
Matt visited and we stayed in San Diego which was something new and exciting. I love a hotel with a view…
Flowers, flowers, flowers! Fall is a very good time for Rasta Rita Flowers and weddings.
This wedding was so pretty and fun. I love it when brides seek me out for my style instead of my price.
That’s all for now. :)
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Corporate Jet-Setter Woman
This is me coming up for air. I’ve been busy traveling and working and pretty much being that boring person that everyone hates because all they do is brag about how great their life is. I don’t want to be like that. But I will say that I am happy right now and very, very thankful.
When I quit working ages ago to freelance, it was hard. It was twenty years ago. (!!) I didn’t thrive. I fumbled. A lot. I didn’t make a lot of money. Sometimes I did but most of the time I didn’t. I had to rely on men in my life to carry me, which I’ve always hated. I hate groveling for money. I hate asking for it. I hate taking it! The root of all evil is the LACK of money in my opinion and it has plagued me my entire life. My parents struggled. I’ve struggled. I’ve always wanted to be successful on my own and most of the time I’ve been able to pull it off except for those times that I didn’t and those times were awful.
So now that I am back in the corporate world after being out of it for so long, it feels really good to be taken seriously. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to get back here. It’s hard looking for work at fifty. I loved being a stay-at-home/work-at-home mom and I don’t think I would have done it any other way but I am really happy to be back at work. Now I just have to keep this job! Eeeek!
I can’t really talk about what I am working on but I can share that I traveled to Yountville last week to scout around and take pictures of the property. It was so much fun. I mean, there are a lot worse places to go to work.
Even in the cold wintery rain, this place was beautiful. The sun came out one day and I was in heaven. Flowers! Blossoms! Estate kitties!
You know me. I love exploring and taking pictures! It’s one of my favorite things to do!
I walked that little town back and forth and back again. It’s really just one main street and very very small. Small, quaint, and beautiful!
I explored the cemetary.
I sampled all the fancy food. Matt came into town to explore with me. I can’t believe I got paid for this job that feels like a vacation.
Will I ever get tired of this? I doubt it. Some of my coworkers seem a little tired of travel but I don’t see that happening to me.
Then I come home and my cats clobber me with affection because they’ve missed me. Bug missed me too, which was really, really sweet. You know how teenagers usually are: Mothers are so annoying etc.. But when they aren’t around to do your laundry or cook and do the dishes, they suddenly become more appreciated. I like being appreciated.
Not that Bug doesn’t appreciate me. We are closer than most mothers and daughters, I think. Here are some photos from a while back when we walked back bay together.
Since I work so much I’m kind of a homebody when I’m home but Bug convinced me to get out and see the spring flowers in bloom.
Even though it was cold, it was the best thing for my health. I haven’t been able to get my three-mile walks in as I used to and I really miss all the exercise I got from working at Ralphs. It’s going to be a challenge to get my regular workout routine back in.
If you’re waffling on getting outside, do it. Just go outside, breathe that cold air, and take some pretty pictures. Spring is on its way and before you know it a super awful hot summer will be smacking us upside the head. I have a feeling it’s going to be worse than it’s ever been.
So lets enjoy this while we have it!
Next week I’m in Amsterdam! I’ll explain more later.