• Beach Bits,  Buddies,  na blow me

    Day Eight: Tour Guide Day

    11/8 toddler at feet

    I guess I’ve run out of excuses for not blogging properly after last night’s post. That doesn’t mean I’m suddenly going to be a great night writer though. I’m just not a night person. I really miss the old days when I could type away after downing a big cup of coffee in the morning. Those were the days.

    I do have a lot to talk about though. I’ve been having a lot of fun showing Bethany Actually around town (ie: forcing her to go to Ralphs with me… What? Don’t all tourists want to go grocery shopping?). I took her along on all my normal routines. The beach, the park… stuff like that.

    lifeguard tower number four

    Too bad the weather has pretty much been like crap. Gray, cold, dreary, foggy… like it is here all winter, we just forget about it because the really pretty days stick in your memory so much more. Bethany says she doesn’t mind. She likes cold weather. She must be a nut.

    crazy bethany

    Obviously. Which is sort of why I like her.

  • Buddies,  na blow me,  the sticks

    Day Five: Meet my Stalker Day

    11/5 "Meeting my Stalker" Shoes

    I got to meet my stalker today. She hates being called that because, really, she is anything but. I love to call her that because I am an imp and I only mean it affectionately. It’s really great to have a stalker like Bethany Actually. She writes really sweet comments on nearly all my flickr pictures, sends me thoughtful and helpful emails and even sends me packages! She makes me feel like I’m Britney Spears with my own fan club.

    bethany actually!

    So anyway Bethany had some family to visit near the sticks so we set up a meeting. It’s always a little scary meeting someone in person for the first time after you’ve had long conversations until the wee hours of the morning on instant messenger. All sorts of insecure thoughts go through your head like, will she like me when she realizes that I talk like a mouse? Will she regret booking a motel to visit me for a whole day at the beach when she finds out I have a kid who likes to run around crazy in restaurants? What if we don’t have anything to talk about. (HA! Like that would ever happen.) Silly stuff like that…

    I have some experience meeting internet friends and I can say that all my meetings have all gone very well. Really, they should when you think about it. Compared to how we usually make friends, by bumping into them or sitting behind them in class etc…, the internet is a pretty good filter. You meet and find people who have similar interests. One link leads to another and next thing you know you are involved in a robust community of goofballs just like yourself.

    goofballs take 3

    I love the internet. I hope I meet every single one of you someday. (Except maybe, you, Mr. Weirdo Foot Fettish Guy)