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Thank You Note Resolutions
Now that I feel like life is going to slow down a little bit, I’ve been thinking about New Year’s Resolutions. Maybe I’ll call them February Resolutions. I’m not setting my goals too high. It’s just some thoughts I’ve had.
My first resolution is to make thank you notes. Just like they say about the cobbler’s children having no shoes the same is true for me. I can make cards so I don’t buy cards. So does that mean I have lots and lots of cards at my disposal to send out thoughtfully for every occasion? NO! I have a box full of envelopes! Seriously. Come over to my house. I’ll show you. I’ve got envelopes in every color and size.
I don’t know how many times people have emailed me to ask if a gift arrived and I’ve had to hang my head in shame and email back that yes, we got the gift, loved it and I’ve been meaning to write a note but somehow got steamrolled by five or six months of doing something else. It’s sad. Pathetic really.
I could just go out and buy some cards. There are thousands and thousands of designs I love and drool over but I can’t! I just can’t make myself buy something that I know I could make myself. It’s madness.
So I’ve resolved to kick myself in the butt and just make some. This will be the year of making cards I declare! I’d love to make some print-ables that you guys can download and play along. Help me stay on task and turn into that girl who sends cards. Really, if anyone should send kind thoughtful things in the mail, that should be me! The one who loves to design things on paper. Sheesh.
As you’ve probably heard, we’ve been hit by some kind of epic storm. Tornado warnings and everything. We’re totally fine of course. I think the only people who have been in danger are people that live in lowlands that tend to flood. One of our neighbors had a tree blow down on their house but here in our second story apartment we’ve kept nice and dry.
Being true Californians, we did not go out of the house. Ack! We might melt if we get wet! And forget about driving. Nobody drives around here if there is even the slightest threat of oil-slick roads. We stayed in the house and made thank you notes ALL DAY LONG. It was awesome.
I was supposed to design something with rainbows and seeds to go along with Bug’s birthday party since these notes were for gifts she received for her birthday…but I just wasn’t feeling it. I really wanted to draw and paint with water color. I knew if I waited until the rainbow and seed inspiration hit me again it could be months. Maybe even never! If I’ve learned anything about myself in these many years of pretending to be an artist, it is to go along with the flow of creativity. Don’t block it. Make it work.
I’ve also learned that when you’re doing something crafty with a kid around you have to just let them go with the flow too. You can’t sit your kid down and say: Paint this. Use that color…etc etc. You’re better off just doing the craft by yourself and letting them flit in and out like a pretty butterfly. Sometimes they’ll knock over your water and smudge your ink but that’s life with kids. A good mother will (mutter a few choice words inside her head and then) mop up the water and look at the smudge as a way to commemorate that one day that you guys sat down and did something together. Maybe it’s not the masterpiece you set out to do but it’s a better one because now it’s a memory preserved forever in a piece of art. A messy piece of art. The best kind, right?
I’m just glad that we made some thank you notes. And in a timely manner at that! Go us! Now if I can just keep this motivation going throughout the rest of the year.
You’ll help me right?
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Let’s Get this Party (planning) Started!
I finally got off my butt and designed Bug’s fourth birthday party invitations. They’ve been in my head for a month or more but I had a lot of trouble getting them out of my head because the theme “Rainbow Birthday Seed Party” just seemed like such a stretch for me. I didn’t fall in love with it like I have past parties I’ve planned. I almost had a micro-mini depression about it and had to sit myself down for about five minutes and say over and over, It’s just a small party. It’s just a small party. This is really NOT a big deal, Brenda.
I know. You’d think I’d have bigger things to worry about but I let Toby handle that stuff. Taxes? Medical insurance? Saving for a house? When are we going to have that second child? Ever? That kind of stuff just shuts my brain down. My hard drive isn’t fast enough or something so I focus on the light and fluffy tasks like cleaning the house and designing birthday party invitations. Whatever gets you through the day, right?
Anyway, I think they turned out cute. I’m not sure how I’m going to carry this kawaii (I crap rainbows) theme out with food and activities but I have some ideas. Maybe a craft where we glue seeds onto paper and of course we could plant something. For food we’ll just eat seeds. Hummus counts as a seed, that’s all I care about. Just kidding. I’m sure we’ll think of something tasty. Rainbow Jell-O® maybe?
Then I let Bug decorate the bright neon pink envelopes with some cute Japanese stickers and we mailed them off at the crack of dawn. Well, as soon as the post office opened that is because I wanted to buy special stamps that matched. There weren’t any so we settled for Simpsons stamps. Which sort of matched but not really. Yep, that was me in line at the post office rocking back and forth while saying over and over to myself in my head, It’s just a small party. It’s not a wedding. It’s okay if the stamps don’t match. I’m such a freak.
Pray for this poor child who may someday grow up and have a wedding planned by me. Or just pray for the mother who will be weeping when her daughter elopes while wearing sweatpants with words on the butt and eating a cheeseburger.