matchy matchy
I’m standing at the sink doing dishes—my normal morning routine. I’m wearing yesterday’s tank top and my hand-me-down yoga pants that I slept in. My hair is piled on top of my head in a messy bun. I haven’t brushed it since yesterday. I haven’t brushed my teeth either. My apron is wet down the front from the water that splashes while I’m doing dishes. I’m sure I’m hunching over with my usual bad posture.
I’m so glamourous.
Bug is off in her room getting dressed. In my mind’s eye I can see her throwing shirts and pants over her shoulder as she looks for the perfect outfit to wear today. I can’t wait to see what she’s going to be today. Will it be seven different shades of red? Her rock-star t-shirt paired with pink socks and her red mary janes? Maybe she’ll be a flower again with her brown velcro runners for the dirt, her green pants for the stem and that old pink t-shirt from Walmart that I can’t stand as the flower. Her outfits always amuse.
She comes out in a hand-me-down t-shirt from Annalie. It’s yellow and white striped just like my tank top. She has jeans on and they are ill-fitting. The pockets are inside out. She shuffles up to me with a frown.
“I wanted to match you but my jeans don’t match your black pants,” she says sadly.
“It’s okay. I’m not going to wear this today anyway,” I tell her. “These are my pajamas.” But she doesn’t listen. She’s off running to her room.
She’s a fashionista on a mission. She comes back out wearing the black sweats I bought her for her ninja costume last Halloween and a big smile. Now we match she tells me, rubbing the fabric of her pants. We both have soft pants on.
I look like a slob. We both do. But in her eyes we are wearing the perfect outfit.
“Nobody will know which one is me and which one is you!” she exclaims and with a hop, she’s off.
31 Comments
Michelle
Too cute! Haven’t been by in awhile…she’s so grown up!
Jamie
That actually brought a tear to my eye. :) So sweet
Danielle (elleinadspir)
That is sooooo sweet. Totally made me smile.
BeachMama
Oh I love it!! And if you didn’t tell us you were in your pj’s we would have never known. I don’t dress us the same on purpose, but quite often Apple will choose her clothes to be the same as me.
Katherine
That’s one of the sweetest things ever!
karen
Aw, that’s is the sweetest thing ever! what a heart warming moment
UggaMugga
I LOVE that! My Martha loves to match me too…it’s quite flattering! How sweet!
a chris
How can a four-year-old in a stripey t-shirt look like a slob? No way. Also, as BeachMama says, we can’t tell it’s your PJs. My PJs, you’d know.
If only we could always see how we look in our kids’ eyes. Sometimes I’m sure we’d want to change it, but a lot of the time it would probably be a nice surprise (especially while they’re little).
Melissa
What a heart-warming story! Loved that you shared it with us!
beck
ADORABLE. Oh I love kids. =)
Li'l Magoolie
lovely lovely lovely. you just melted my heart into a puddle on the floor.
Jummy
That’s so beautiful!
bethany actually
This post made me laugh and miss you guys so bad! I’m glad we could play a tiny part in Bug’s morning routine. :-)
bethany actually
Also, I love how Lily is sitting up there, looking down at the camera like, “I can’t believe I have to put up with these shenanigans when I am trying to nap.”
Ninotchka
:)
Ashley
That’s sweet! You’ll want to pull that out to remember when she’s 16 and doing whatever she can to convince people you’re not related (although, you kinda fit cool mom status so maybe you’ll avoid that stage. My mother, did not.)
Kate
Awwww! Such sweetness.
Roz
adorable :)
gingermog
Wow that is such a compliment, such a lovely post. You might think you look slobby ( Who dresses up to do the dishes anyway? ) but I think you actually look cute. I’d love to be able to pile my hair on top of my head and have graceful tendrils cascading down. I have hippy hair when I grow it long (think of the show HAIR) so I rarely let it grown beyond 3 inches!
Kate
That is SOOOOO cute. Makes me wish I had a mini-me, too :)
Madge
The “nobody will know which is me….” comment just killed me. I think her next birthday theme should be “Fashion Show!”
Danna
That is too adorable!
Patricia
sweet. <3
Aneets
Good lord she is adorable- you’re very lucky!
Jess
I think you made my heart explode. Bug is awesome (and you better not have changed…unless Bug had another matching outfit.)
Rebecca (Bearca)
She’s just darling. I love little girls. Mine is just 2 and is already headed down the path of independent fashion choices!
silver
She thinks you’re stylish! I can’t wait for my kids to be old enough to express thoughts like that.
Ninabi
Oh what sweet days when your little girl wants to look just like you. Bug is precious.
Jenni
Oh this is so precious! Isn’t this what it’s all about…Tears of happiness for your little Bug and the happy gifts of love she gives to you!
pinky
this just melts my heart.
Lady in a Smalltown
I could hardly tell you apart.